"The intensive experience was one of personal growth and being able to own up to my weakness. Fully understanding the pain I have brought upon my wife and that I alone am the cause, and that I am also the solution. I am in control of my own fate. I have been given the opportunity to renew my faith and tools to manage my addition. The whole process made me live though a great range of emotions from being knocked down to being lifted with hope." 

- KA, Recovering Addict

"Most helpful for me was opening the door on complete honesty around my entire history on sex from an early age has given me an opportunity to feel a new freedom that I never considered was possible. It's brought a greater perspective on my recovery and brings a new sense of partnering with [my wife] that's unique and very special.  I can now understand why it's called hope and 'freedom'. I have for the first time in my life begun to understand what 'freedom' means. Recovery has all been about me and your programme really got to the heart of the issues that [my wife] is dealing with in trauma about my past behaviour and secrets. I found the whole experience very tiring and challenging but key was your work in restoring us to a higher level of intimacy that I did not imagine was possible. It feels like our relationship is like starting over. I also feel the whole experience was extremely professionally handled by you and in summary feel there is now a real purpose to the word ‘us."

- HG, Recovering Addict

"Over all it met all my expectations. I had great hopes for the polygraph exam to happen. Because it allowed me to be honest and truthful to myself and especially to my wife. As [you] said after I passed the exam, that my trust bucket now has a bottom to it. It's up to me now to fill it up for my wife. You and the gentleman who gave me the polygraph exam did everything to ensure that I had a secure and safe place to go through this intensive 3 days."

- TM, Recovering Addict

"The most helpful parts of the Intensive were the disclosure and polygraph. The validity to me for the understandable trauma. Honesty.  The Intensive was exhausting, mind blowing, incredible, amazing. I felt the immense relief that at long, long last, I was being taken seriously in my need for honesty. Without that, it wasn't possible for me to live a free life. The hope this has given me for my future is great. It took me out of 'victim' and gave me empowerment. I have no need to look back over my shoulder and fear another disclosure or suspect or worry or imagine. I can relax more about the future. I can now go through the healing process in a whole and true way. [You] were very calming and created the safety needed. A roller coaster of emotions which were very well looked after and directed. My heartfelt thanks."

- KC, Recovering Addict

"Exhausting, awesome, scary, relieving. Over all this has been one of the best times I have spent with [my wife]. Having her by my side through this was the most important thing to me. I can honestly say I was a bit worried about the whole process, but I am going to recommend this to everyone that wants to get on the straight and narrow. I know it is not for everyone, but the way I feel now is something better than I have felt in a very long time. I am truly looking forward to the years to come."

- JM, Recovering Addict